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Thursday, September 24, 2009
10 Tips for husband and wife
There are 10 things that can be made to maintain the atmosphere of the honeymoon between husband and wife
1. Do not be too often criticize. You should understand the psychology of your spouse. For example men generally like to feel self-important, like the celebrated and encouraged. In this case, many women who made a fatal mistake. Husband not take precedence in the family, even underestimated. Among psychiatrists, the wives of her husband's master yag said "castrating" her husband.
There is also a tendency for women who lack recognized by men. They usually want to feel safe, feel loved and considered part instrumental in the success achieved by her husband. They are also less likely to be considered
"mother" by her husband. Instead they just want to admire her, appreciate their strengths as a man.
2. If a fight, better choose the style discussions. But, if you feel like going to "explode", had better not talk about differences of opinion. Moreover, generally a disagreement between husband and wife only on matters of less importance.
3. In the conversation, should lament about the disease, accounts, bills and all sorts of concerns should not be repeated so that conversations can be more fun.
4. No easy tantrum, cursing or swearing. Stop it before already become a habit.
5. If an annoyance when you are overwhelmed with the vices of the couple, try to examine your own shortcomings.
6. If you heard the news, as there is to see your partner walking together with others (opposite sex), try not to follow a spontaneous impulse, that is suspicious or jealous.
7. Have fun, but with your partner. Without good time to be enjoyed together, marriage will seem bland.
8. If your partner's affair, dealing with the problem as you care for a child, husband or wife who is ill. Do not look for the gun, take medication to sleep, get drunk or get a divorce. Instead, go to a marriage counselor. Clearly, prevention is certainly the best and is much dependent on the wife. The problem in the family life she is "as" his wife who can realize the competition and tension that must be faced by the husband is usually a wife and full of gentle tolerance.
9. Marriage should be the joint effort, rather than the arena for competing influences seizure. More concerned with true love and consider the interests of their beloved ones.
10. lack skewer in sex, should be addressed. Generally lack this skewer comes to couples who fight constantly. Tend to frigid wife tends sadistic and fussy. Husband who is less successful in terms of sex is likely to be overwhelmed with a chronic disease that produces prolonged complaints. For days now, actually no reason for couples to not fit in terms of sex. Because the books on the scientific approach to sex that was plenty. After all, a psychiatrist if the problem is complex.
1. Do not be too often criticize. You should understand the psychology of your spouse. For example men generally like to feel self-important, like the celebrated and encouraged. In this case, many women who made a fatal mistake. Husband not take precedence in the family, even underestimated. Among psychiatrists, the wives of her husband's master yag said "castrating" her husband.
There is also a tendency for women who lack recognized by men. They usually want to feel safe, feel loved and considered part instrumental in the success achieved by her husband. They are also less likely to be considered
"mother" by her husband. Instead they just want to admire her, appreciate their strengths as a man.
2. If a fight, better choose the style discussions. But, if you feel like going to "explode", had better not talk about differences of opinion. Moreover, generally a disagreement between husband and wife only on matters of less importance.
3. In the conversation, should lament about the disease, accounts, bills and all sorts of concerns should not be repeated so that conversations can be more fun.
4. No easy tantrum, cursing or swearing. Stop it before already become a habit.
5. If an annoyance when you are overwhelmed with the vices of the couple, try to examine your own shortcomings.
6. If you heard the news, as there is to see your partner walking together with others (opposite sex), try not to follow a spontaneous impulse, that is suspicious or jealous.
7. Have fun, but with your partner. Without good time to be enjoyed together, marriage will seem bland.
8. If your partner's affair, dealing with the problem as you care for a child, husband or wife who is ill. Do not look for the gun, take medication to sleep, get drunk or get a divorce. Instead, go to a marriage counselor. Clearly, prevention is certainly the best and is much dependent on the wife. The problem in the family life she is "as" his wife who can realize the competition and tension that must be faced by the husband is usually a wife and full of gentle tolerance.
9. Marriage should be the joint effort, rather than the arena for competing influences seizure. More concerned with true love and consider the interests of their beloved ones.
10. lack skewer in sex, should be addressed. Generally lack this skewer comes to couples who fight constantly. Tend to frigid wife tends sadistic and fussy. Husband who is less successful in terms of sex is likely to be overwhelmed with a chronic disease that produces prolonged complaints. For days now, actually no reason for couples to not fit in terms of sex. Because the books on the scientific approach to sex that was plenty. After all, a psychiatrist if the problem is complex.
Friday, September 18, 2009
Excusitis self defense disease
self defense was a matter of course. What was unusual is when people do it to excess, to always argued for the things that matter. If it happens to you, be careful, because you might shunned friends and relatives.
Excusitis terms of a series of new words of excuse and "-itis". Yet the language of science is called neologisms (neologism).
In medical terms affix "-itis" is used to denote inflammation such as meningitis, neuritis, etc.. Thus, it is not right that the term "-itis" is used to denote abnormal favorite people looking for a reason. Be more precise disorder is called The disease of making excuses
(mal d'excuses).
People who find an excuse for its failure to some extent still be acceptable. Because this is a defense or difense mechanism (defense mechanism). Showed some degree psychological process for the achievement of a balance and maturity of one's soul in order not to sink (mental breakdown).
In discussing this disorder we can not move from the review in terms of medical science cross-cultural spirit. Science is looking at the cultural aspect of what can affect and interact in the patient, causing a disturbance or disorder. For example there are groups of people who feel ashamed if something happens to them. For that we need effort, changing family structures in order to avoid the shame is greater. For example, by driving one of the family.
Excusitis disorders health, intelligence, age, or fate, actually has the same features that look for reasons to be excused or accepted when there are deficiencies in the performance. Up to a certain extent, so as not to lose face, in general such people are still acceptable (Permissible). But, of course abnormal extent, need to be examined again.
Excusitis sufferers is not a loser, but more on efforts to find a reason to seek balance in mental constellation so as not vulnerable, or sunk. Once again, here showing a defense mechanism called behavioral science (the science of behavior).
Evasion (avoidance) is allowed in certain psikolodinamika people so that they can survive. With these defense mechanisms people can resume their lives and the balance of his soul to live more peacefully and work in line with expectations on him.
Excusitis terms of a series of new words of excuse and "-itis". Yet the language of science is called neologisms (neologism).
In medical terms affix "-itis" is used to denote inflammation such as meningitis, neuritis, etc.. Thus, it is not right that the term "-itis" is used to denote abnormal favorite people looking for a reason. Be more precise disorder is called The disease of making excuses
(mal d'excuses).
People who find an excuse for its failure to some extent still be acceptable. Because this is a defense or difense mechanism (defense mechanism). Showed some degree psychological process for the achievement of a balance and maturity of one's soul in order not to sink (mental breakdown).
In discussing this disorder we can not move from the review in terms of medical science cross-cultural spirit. Science is looking at the cultural aspect of what can affect and interact in the patient, causing a disturbance or disorder. For example there are groups of people who feel ashamed if something happens to them. For that we need effort, changing family structures in order to avoid the shame is greater. For example, by driving one of the family.
Excusitis disorders health, intelligence, age, or fate, actually has the same features that look for reasons to be excused or accepted when there are deficiencies in the performance. Up to a certain extent, so as not to lose face, in general such people are still acceptable (Permissible). But, of course abnormal extent, need to be examined again.
Excusitis sufferers is not a loser, but more on efforts to find a reason to seek balance in mental constellation so as not vulnerable, or sunk. Once again, here showing a defense mechanism called behavioral science (the science of behavior).
Evasion (avoidance) is allowed in certain psikolodinamika people so that they can survive. With these defense mechanisms people can resume their lives and the balance of his soul to live more peacefully and work in line with expectations on him.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Why women buttons mounted on the left
Whereas male buttons on the right. It is said that once men and women are both wearing buttons sewn on the left sleeve. Then dizaman the Middle Ages, fashion clothing and fashion weapons contest open to men need to be used to coat a sword hanging on the left. Because the right hand to open the first button, the removal of the sword so slow.
In order to be fast, just move the buttons to the right, to be opened with the left hand. Right hand free to reach hilt.
Buttons actually being used for a long time. The archaeologists found the button that is used before people knew the writing. However, it was only popular in 1200 s, when another loose robe, the robe does not need buttons enough, enough belts or pinned with a pin
Today's buttons are made of plastic or metal, old age people wear shell buttons, glass, leather, pearls and even gold as the Greek four thousand years ago.
Bra we have grandmothers who wore buttons of gold and silver coins.
If we look at our coat, jacket or coat the husband of our fathers we will find a row of buttons installed at the wrist. What is the button for us ..? It was not there, except for decoration. However, once the button has a function.
When the King of Prussia Friderich Court ruled in the 1700 s, often told his troops to war. The king himself often went down to the field to inspect his troops.
He was very upset because his army uniform was very dirty, more dirty than other parts. "Why dirty ..?" he asked. It turned out that the soldiers used to sweep the sweat on his face with his sleeve.
"Put the metal buttons that place ...!!" orders. Soldiers who are still desperate to use the sleeve as a substitute for a face towel now sore because injuries.
in arm buttons were copied to the civil suit, but just for decoration, not to prevent the arms made cloth sweat suit.
In order to be fast, just move the buttons to the right, to be opened with the left hand. Right hand free to reach hilt.
Buttons actually being used for a long time. The archaeologists found the button that is used before people knew the writing. However, it was only popular in 1200 s, when another loose robe, the robe does not need buttons enough, enough belts or pinned with a pin
Today's buttons are made of plastic or metal, old age people wear shell buttons, glass, leather, pearls and even gold as the Greek four thousand years ago.
Bra we have grandmothers who wore buttons of gold and silver coins.
If we look at our coat, jacket or coat the husband of our fathers we will find a row of buttons installed at the wrist. What is the button for us ..? It was not there, except for decoration. However, once the button has a function.
When the King of Prussia Friderich Court ruled in the 1700 s, often told his troops to war. The king himself often went down to the field to inspect his troops.
He was very upset because his army uniform was very dirty, more dirty than other parts. "Why dirty ..?" he asked. It turned out that the soldiers used to sweep the sweat on his face with his sleeve.
"Put the metal buttons that place ...!!" orders. Soldiers who are still desperate to use the sleeve as a substitute for a face towel now sore because injuries.
in arm buttons were copied to the civil suit, but just for decoration, not to prevent the arms made cloth sweat suit.
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